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HOW TO GENUINELY EXPRESS GRATEFULNESS

“Be specific. What are you grateful for, exactly?” he asked.   Years ago, after a speaker boot camp had just...
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THREE WAYS IGNORING YOUR CREATIVITY IS BLOCKING YOUR DREAM JOB

When Joy* came to see me, she was dressed in black from head to toe, not because she found that...
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WHY STATUS QUO KILLS HAPPINESS AND WHAT TO DO INSTEAD

    It was our last coaching session in our eight sessions contract and I asked Carmen* if she wanted...
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HOW TO REFLECT LIGHT BACK AT ITS SOURCE, GIVE CREDIT WHERE DUE

  RETROREFLECTOR PIECE … reflecting light back to its source…   How important it it to you to have someone...
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HOW TO ELIMINATE A OO7 DOUBLE LIFE

When James* called upon me, he asked that we meet in an open restaurant downtown Vancouver. Asking him why there...
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IS LINKEDIN BECOMING THE NEW TINDER?

Have you ever received a message from one of your LinkedIn contacts? In that moment, where were you physically? Were...
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ROUND AND ROUND

ROUND AND ROUND   Round and round We go again On the merry-go-round of life. Ups and downs, We think...
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HOW FAR AM I WILLING TO GO?

HOW FAR AM I WILLING TO GO?   Am I willing to go beyond the stars Where you and I...
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I — USED TO THINK

I -- USED TO THINK   I used to think A tree was just a tree I saw it with...
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WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT SADNESS?

If I were to ask you right now,   “Where does sadness come from?”   What is your answer?  ...
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AWAKENING

AWAKENING   I awoke in the middle of the night, Frightened and scared, Thinking I was alone. I looked around...
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HOW TO GET THROUGH “HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU”

I look at him, a playful grin on my face. I am laying on the bed, watching him as he...
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WHAT WOULD YOU GIVE TO SAY, “IT’S NOT WORK ANYMORE”

I have just spent the last 90 minutes with my mentor Dov Baron. As he leads me to the elevator,...
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WHAT OUR PEEING HABITS REVEAL…

I am somewhere deep in the countryside. It is Sunday afternoon, sunny, and beside me is sitting my 16 year...
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ASSUMPTIONS, A RELATIONSHIP KILLER

I am out of breath, I find myself gasping for air. Each stroke is becoming more difficult. I tell myself,...
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