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Awareness Emotional Intelligence Self-empowerment

DIFFERENTIATING CANNOT, CANNOT, CANNOT, CANNOT

When you say the word cannot, what exactly do you mean by it?  As a matter of fact, one of...
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Emotional Boundaries Emotional Intelligence Grief

HOW TO SET AND UPHOLD HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

Healthy boundaries are never about others. When Suzy (name changed) first came to see me, she was feeling torn between...
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Anxiety Emotional Intelligence

HOW TO DEAL WITH ANXIETY IN RELATIONSHIPS

Anxiety is like a magnet;  it looks for people and situations displaying a similar resonance. When she first came to...
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Emotional Intelligence Parenting responsibility

FOSTERING RESPONSIBILITY IN YOUR TEENAGER

Fostering responsibility starts with the self. We cannot teach what we are not living. "This is all your fault!” I...
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Communication Emotional Intelligence

HOW TO EMBRACE HEARTFELT COMMUNICATION

Heartfelt communication happens when we emotionally connect to what is being conveyed. When Carol (name changed) first came to see...
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Emotional Intelligence Self-Worth

ELVEN TIPS ON HOW TO RECLAIM OUR WORTHINESS AFTER PARENTAL ABUSE

“Telling a child to keep their sense of worthiness intact while they are being abused is like asking an adult not...
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Emotional Intelligence Sales

HOW TO DISCOVER WHAT YOUR CUSTOMER NEEDS

To discover what a customer needs, we must first let go of wanting to be right. When Jack (name changed)...
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Emotional Intelligence Self-Worth

HOW TO EXUDE HIGHER SELF-WORTH

Self-worth and self-esteem are two vastly different things. Allow me to explain. Self-esteem is external. Self-esteem is the value we...
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Emotional Intelligence Personal Finances

HOW TO OVERCOME MONEY CHASING SYNDROME TO FIND HAPPINESS

When Joe (name changed) first came to see me, he said that money was everything to him. And it was...
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Awareness Emotional Intelligence Emotionally Available

ARE YOU EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE?

Are you emotionally available? Many of us like to think that we are emotionally available, but when it comes to:...
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Emotional Intelligence Grief

HOW TO FEEL OUR WAY THROUGH GRIEF

Grief is a feeling lovingly calling us home to ourselves.   Denial stage I couldn’t believe he had done it...
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China Compassion Emotional Intelligence

HOW CANADIAN BORN CHINESE CAN CONNECT WITH THEIR HERITAGE

“You don’t understand. I don’t want you to feel sorry for me as a Chinese. I need you to be...
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Emotional Intelligence Sales

WHAT MAKES AMAZON GREAT AT SELLING

Selling aims to discover what a prospect needs and provides it in exchange for money. Let me share with you...
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Blind Spots Creativity Emotional Intelligence

FIVE KEYS TO TAP INTO HIDDEN CREATIVITY

What would happen if you tapped into your hidden creativity? When George (name changed) first came to see me, he...
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Emotional Intelligence Silent Treatment

HOW TO OVERCOME THE SILENT TREATMENT

THAT MOMENT… when you are so pissed off ... that the temperature in the room drops by at least ten...
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